In Classrooms and Kitchens: Co-thinking with AI

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Aug 4
4 min read

As educators and school boards navigate the promise and pitfalls of AI, what if we invited students to reflect—not just consume?

Let’s flip the script.

This isn’t a hypothetical. OpenAI recently launched Study Mode, helping students work through problems step by step using Socratic prompts. And the newly announced National Academy for AI Instruction—a $23 million initiative between the American Federation of Teachers, OpenAI, Microsoft, and Anthropic—is set to train 400,000 educators over the next five years.

Yet most reflection frameworks are designed for classrooms, not living rooms. National efforts are multiplying, signaling a shift from caution and fragmentation to structured exploration and integration.

Reflection frameworks exist—in classrooms, in nonprofits, even in AI product launches—but most families aren’t using them. Not because they don’t care, but because they don’t know they exist.

That’s why COASTEE isn’t just offering a framework. We’re offering a bridge.

While I’m not an educator, I speak often with students and families trying to make sense of this rapidly changing world. And what I hear, again and again, is that responsible tech use begins with open dialogue. When we create space to reflect on AI—not just consume it—we give students the tools to think critically, challenge assumptions, and reclaim their voice.

This blog is a call for dialogue, not an AI how-to. A way to turn tool use into thoughtfulness, and to remind ourselves that reflection isn’t extra—it’s essential.

This reflection framework is designed to empower educators, students, and families alike. By focusing on education, we aim to foster a culture of thoughtful engagement with AI—one that prioritizes learning, dialogue, and ethical inquiry.

From Tool to Thought Partner

Many students use AI to get answers. Fewer have been taught to question them.

That’s where discernment begins…

In a world shaped by fluent machines and predictive replies, our most urgent educational task may be teaching the art of discernment.

That means shifting from: “Don’t use AI” to “Let’s talk about how you used it—and what you learned.”

That’s how we flip the script: by modeling inquiry instead of enforcement.

A COASTEE Framework for AI Reflection

Here’s one simple, dialogue-driven way to bring this to life:

Step	Action	Purpose
1. Use AI	Students complete a task using an AI tool—writing an essay, designing a flyer, solving a problem.	Normalizes AI as a real-world tool.
2. Reflect Individually	Students answer prompts like: → Do I agree with the AI’s output? → What would I change or challenge? → How did my input shape the result?	Builds agency, self-awareness, and critical thinking.
3. Compare Outputs	Students share AI results with peers, noticing similarities, differences, surprises.	Reveals the human layer behind the machine.
4. Group Dialogue	Class discusses authorship, bias, tone, creativity. → Who owns the result? → Is it “good” writing—or just fluent? → If this was done as a group project how would it differ?	Centers open dialogue and ethical reflection.
5. Reflect Again	Students revisit their reflections post-discussion. → How has my perspective changed?	Reinforces adaptive thinking and shared learning.

We are not aiming for flawless execution and perfect alignment. We are anchoring in what feels right – building habits of reflection and trusting young people to rise to the moment when we give them.

Who Else Is Flipping the Script

Across the country, educators and innovators are using AI not to shortcut learning—but to deepen it:

Stanford d.school uses Riff, an AI reflection assistant, to spark dialogue after experiences.
Knowles Teacher Initiative encourages new teachers to reflect on how AI shapes lesson design.
aiEDU & Harvard promote projects where students analyze authorship, bias, and ethics in AI-generated work.

AI isn’t the learning. Thinking about AI is.

Example Project: Family AI Reflection

Objective:

Explore how AI tools shape creativity and decision-making through a collaborative family project.

Steps:

Choose a Task: Pick a creative task like preparing a shopping budget, planning a vacation itinerary, or creating an invitation for a summer party.
Use AI Together: Use an AI tool to complete the task. For example, use ChatGPT to draft a vacation itinerary where everyone’s asks are met, or DALL-E to generate images for the summer party.
Reflect Individually: Beyond output, reflect on the experience itself—how it felt, what it sparked, and what it revealed.

Each family member answers prompts like:

→ What surprised me about the AI’s output?

→ What would I change or improve?

→ How did my input shape the result?

→ Was it fun?

→ Did it add to family bonds or was it isolating?

→ How was this experience different than when they did projects without AI?

Share and Compare: Discuss the AI results as a family. Notice similarities, differences, and surprises in perspectives.
Group Dialogue: Talk about authorship, creativity, and bias.

→ Who owns the result?

→ Is it “good” work—or just fast and fluent?

→ Is the work differentiated enough?

→ Does it reflect the family’s uniqueness?

Reflect Again: Revisit individual reflections post-discussion. → How has my perspective changed?

Outcome: A completed family project and a deeper understanding of how AI shapes creativity, collaboration and family dynamics.

COASTEE’s Invitation

This reflection framework is built for classrooms—but also for homes, nonprofits, libraries, and community centers. It’s a conversation anyone can host. Technical expertise isn’t necessary. All you need is curiosity, and a willingness to ask:

What does this tool reveal and conceal?
How do I feel about the AI’s output?
What does reflection teach me that the prompt didn’t?

Why COASTEE Matters

Our daily lives are flooded with technology. Families need more ways to talk about tech tools, not just cope with them.

COASTEE’s approach complements existing efforts while advancing a unique ethos:

Ethical Storytelling: Encourages families to explore the narratives AI creates—and the ones they want to tell.
Intergenerational Trust: Builds bridges between parents, kids, and caregivers through shared reflection.
Community-First Access: Makes AI reflection accessible to homes, libraries, and nonprofits—not just classrooms.

This isn’t just about fluency. It’s about fostering curiosity, discernment, and shared agency.

As we raise the next generation of thinkers and citizens, the goal isn’t to tame the technology. It’s to raise voices that remain clear, curious, and in charge of the story they tell.